The Things You Should Not Say To Your Boyfriend

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By stricktlydating

You want to keep your boyfriend, right?  Well there's a few times you need to hold your tongue! Don't say these things to your boyfriend, or you're asking for trouble!

  • My last boyfriend was bigger. Umm, more buff I mean!
  • I still have strong desires for my ex boyfriend.
  • I love you BUT I'm not in love with you.
  • I hate your dog.
  • You weren't my first choice for a boyfriend, but the one I wanted wasn't interested in a relationship.
  • I've slept with **** guys before you.
  • My ex taught me a lot of tricks, he was into kinky things!
  • I wish you could be more like my ex.
  • I've had **** one-night-stands.
  • I'm still registered on that online dating site!
  • I tell all my friends about our bedroom antics.
  • I'm never going to be the one who treats you like you're so special.
  • I'm not attracted to you naked.
  • I don't like your friends.
  • I don't like your mother.
  • The more I get to know you the more I wonder if you're going to be good enough.
  • Your best friend is hot. So is your dad.
  • I've got a little crush on your brother / cousin / a work mate.
  • My best friend / sister has a huge crush on you.
  • I'm ready to have your baby.
  • I refuse to allow you to go on a night out drinking with your mates.
  • You're a really bad kisser - it grosses me out!
  • When you're not around, I sometimes see someone else.
  • Are you SURE you're not gay?
  • Can I call your ex to confirm exactly why you broke up with her?
  • I'm happy for now but I don't see you in my long term future.
  • My Facebook Friends flirt with me all the time.
  • I still SMS my ex-boyfriend sometimes, only when I'm bored.
  • I think you're boring.
  • I'll never trust you.
  • Sometimes I feel like I'm too hot to be with someone like you.
  • In my past relationships I always ended up cheating.
  • I could have another you in a minute!
  • I look through your mobile phone when you're not around. Sorry.

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Anath 2 years ago

It also scares some of them if I tell them I am into bondage and spanking ;-)

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

Hehehehe! That's a classic Anath!

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marcofratelli 2 years ago

Oh yeah, better to suss out how adventurous they are, Anath! Stricktlydating I'd agree with that list, although if the boyfriend were to ask those questions, would you tell him the truth? eg how many people have you slept with before?!

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

G'dayh marcofratelli, nice to hear from you. No, I probably wouldn't say how many - nor would I like to know how many women he's been with. I don't see anything positive coming from the answer to that!

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carolina muscle Level 1 Commenter 2 years ago

Haha.. "are you sure you're not gay?"

That one is definitely gonna be a buzz kill. LOL

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks carolina muscle - I agree!

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Lady_E Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago

Now that is Brill. Funny but very good advice. :)

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Winsome Level 6 Commenter 2 years ago

Hi SD. Guys are all about respect. Most of those statements show a lack of it, but the good news is, if you change them to describe him and make the negative ones positive, you have another ready-made hub of what to say to your guy. E.g. "You are a really good kisser--I like your friends--you are hotter than....I'm very attracted to you naked etc. Build our self-esteem and recognize our efforts and we'll follow you anywhere. =:)

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks Lady_E I appreciate your feedback!

Thanks Winsome, you have some great points!

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prasetio30 Level 8 Commenter 2 years ago

I don't want to tell about that to my girl friends, for better relationship. I really adore woman. thanks

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

Thanks for your comment prasetio30!

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Brionia Bagley 2 years ago

Ooh, I really like this advice, even though I'm pretty sure I've never told my former boyfriends any of those things. I believe that every girl needs to read this piece. Now I'm gonna run and tell all my girlfriends to read it : )

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

Hi Brionia, thanks and best wishes!

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lurpak34 2 years ago

Ha ha, an amusing list..But how about a little twist?

What about a list of things GUYS shouldn't say to WOMEN? Or should? What really turns you off or on? Just a thought!..

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iowac 2 years ago

Look, from my point of view, most of those things above would tell me that the woman is not that into the guy and really she should tell him, so either he or she could move on, not just hang around because she doesnt have someone else. The least she could do is say look your just a right now thing until I find something better. Some things you keep to yourself, but "I don't see you in my future" laugh hello that is one you should say.

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stricktlydating Hub Author 2 years ago

Great point iowac!

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tom hellert Level 7 Commenter 22 months ago

interesting but you forgot- "sorry,

"I don't date outside my species."

or

"I would rather gauge my eyes out." or

"They just laugh."

TH

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stricktlydating Hub Author 22 months ago

Thanks Tom!

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padmendra 22 months ago

Yes, I do agree with you. One has to keep the secret of his past love life which was broken due to some tradegy or misunderstanding away from boyfriend. Talking lavishly also damage the relationship and it is always better to concentrate on your boyfriend rather than looking here and there.

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stricktlydating Hub Author 22 months ago

Thanks for your comment padmendra!

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Contrice 20 months ago

Hahahahahahaha...Have I said a few of these....I think so! No wonder we broke up! lol

Guest 19 months ago

I heard if you talk about how hot other guys are, cheating on your ex boyfriends, how ugly he is etc., he'll eventually blow up at you. Most guys can't handle it.

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AshleyRB 16 months ago

Oh my goodness! "I'm ready to have your baby right now!" ?

That would scare anybody away! lol

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stricktlydating Hub Author 16 months ago

Yes AshleyRB, he'd probably choke if you said that!

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Ebower Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

This is quite funny, but I'm sure there are girls out there that have said all or at least some of these things! Great hub; I voted it up and funny!

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stricktlydating Hub Author 10 months ago

Yes, I hope there are some girls out there have said or do use some of these quotes, it would be quite funny considering the situation! Of course, only if they aren't serious with their man!

Bethaniee 6 months ago

Well Ii havent said any of these things to my bf but he dumped me for my cousin any advice?

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stricktlydating Hub Author 6 months ago

Hi Bethaniee,

I don't know what your feelings are about being dumped for your cousin. But I know what mine would be and I would be talking to my cousin about these feelings, and as soon as possible to let her know. Personally, I wouldn't accept my friends or family dating anyone I've dated. I'm very black and white about that, but that's just me. Here's hoping you find a better bf ;)

bella 6 months ago

ma current boyfrnd got to know about ma ex. from outer source nd nw he misunderstand me i love him nd dnt want to loose him....what to do.....no idea.....any suggestions?

manvi25 6 months ago

ma current boyfriend got to knw abt ex from someone else i love him alot dnt wanna to losse him what to do any suggestions ?

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stricktlydating Hub Author 6 months ago

Hi Bella Manivi25,

I don't know what the situation is with your boyfriend being upset about your ex, but we all have ex's for a reason. It didn't work out with them so we move on. Your current boyfriend wasn't in a relationship with you back then, so I don't know why your past relationship should affect him now he is with you. I suggest you reassure him the past relationship is long over, was a mistake (?) and you're glad you're relationship ended, and reassure him how much you love him and don't want to lose him just like you said here. Best wishes :)

tbone66 5 months ago

My boyfriend is very insecure about my past encounters. His ex financee cheated on him w/ his best friend 16 years ago, and now he thinks that I will cheat on him as well w/ my past encounters. Try to reassure him, but, he still is convinced that I'll cheat on him...Any suggestions?

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stricktlydating Hub Author 5 months ago

Hi Tbone66, You can only reassure him, but don't delve too deeply into this issue he has as you don't want to take on his insecurity about this as your own, and you don't want to take it personally, or have to constantly try to 'prove yourself' to him. Hopefully he realises the ex wasn't meant to stay in his life due to her behaviour, and that you are nothing like her. It does sound like he has some 'emotional baggage' which he's bringing into your relationship, and it's not fair on you. Best wishes and hope this helps a little!

Flora 4 months ago

What are the things to tell my new guy why i broke up wit my ex cos telin him the truth might cause problem.

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stricktlydating Hub Author 4 months ago

Hi Flora, You could say something like you weren't really compatable or didn't have a strong bond, so you couldn't get very serious with him.

Twinkie5 3 months ago

My ex talks to me,but secretly. He tells me that he wants me back an I keep falling for him. Hes a jerk and plays a lot of girls. What can I tell him to keep him away and what can I do to get over him??

- Twinkie5

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Ranzi Level 1 Commenter 3 months ago

haha loved it - At time I've said most of the above and it made the guy more crazy about me. Maybe the masochists ones lol

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